Loved this one called “Quite comparable, actually.” Posted on November 11, 2011 by Jessica Hagy.
There is so much in life that is like that. You come to an impasse in your marriage or you get fed up at work. Your boss is a jerk or whatever. You just need a bit of a different perspective on the issue. Turn it over. Lay it sideways. Bounce it (not your boss) off the wall.
I don’t think we are stuck in our perspectives like optimist or pessimist. You know the joke:
There are twin boys of five or six. Mom was worried that the boys had developed extreme personalities — one was a total pessimist, the other a total optimist — their parents took them to a psychiatrist.
First the psychiatrist treated the pessimist. Trying to brighten his outlook, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with brand-new toys. But instead of yelping with delight, the little boy burst into tears. “What’s the matter?” the psychiatrist asked, baffled. “Don’t you want to play with any of the toys?” “Yes,” the little boy bawled, “but if I did I’d only break them.”
Next the psychiatrist treated the optimist. Trying to dampen his out look, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with horse manure. But instead of wrinkling his nose in disgust, the optimist emitted just the yelp of delight the psychiatrist had been hoping to hear from his brother, the pessimist. Then he clambered to the top of the pile, dropped to his knees, and began gleefully digging out scoop after scoop with his bare hands. “What do you think you’re doing?” the psychiatrist asked, just as baffled by the optimist as he had been by the pessimist. “With all this manure,” the little boy replied, beaming, “there must be a pony in here somewhere” [from Herding Cats]
I do think you can choose how you look at a problem, pain, or puzzle. It can be like apples and oranges or comparing oranges to apples.